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Friday, October 26, 2012
The End and the Beginning
Here I was at the end of my pregnancy, in full bloom so to speak! I was definitely ready to not be pregnant anymore, but no one could have prepared me for the new life ahead! Here is Keane just after he was born at 9 lbs 5 oz. He was born by ceasarean after a long unsuccessful induction which luckily was not painful as I decided to go with an epidural before they did the hormone drip. In hindsight it was a wise deceision because after over 18 hours of labor, I had only dilated 3 centimetrers which they informed me did not even constitute "established labor" so they were able to top up the epidural and present me with a beautifil baby boy on my chest within about 15 minutes. The wait was over, and our little (well not so little)
Sunday, May 6, 2012
My Pregnancy
Here are some pictures of me as I grow bigger and BIGGER! I am certainly getting pretty big these days. It is now beginning to get a bit difficult to get into the car or to get up off of the couch which is funny. The last picture was taken on our last baby-free holiday to the Isle of Wight at the beginning of April when I was about 30 weeks pregnant. I'm now 35 weeks but certainly bigger than I was then. I am lucky to have had 2 baby showers, one via skype with my American family back home and one yesterday with friends and English family. We started our pre-natal classes and have met some nice people, and I also have a good friend who is due a couple weeks before me and also having a boy which is nice. We had a nice holiday for a week just the two of us before Easter, and we are now working on getting the baby room ready. It's all starting to feel real now since I only have about 5 weeks to go!
Saturday, February 11, 2012
It's a Boy!

As you all know by now, we are expecting the arrival of our first born due June 9th 2012. We are very excited and have enjoyed getting our sneak peeks of our little one at 13 and 21 weeks. As you can see, the baby is looking more like a baby now, and I personally think I can see a little bit of Tim in the profile. The exciting news that we found out last Friday is that we are going to be proud parents of a beautiful baby boy. We had been wanting to find out since I got pregnant, so it was very exciting when the moment finally arrived. we were actually both surprised because we both had a hunch it was a girl. It was a very nice surprise! Since the news, it has been fun imagining what he will be like. We have started thinking more seriously about names, but we are not telling any of our favorites. Any suggestions are very welcome, but the name will certainly be a surprise until Baby Webb makes his appearance. The joke around the house now is that I will have a house full of me and sweet boys! We always call the cats, the sweet boys, and of course there is Tim, so I will certainly be one outnumbered female. We are looking forward to spending time with our little boy, and I hear that Uncle Phil has already ordered a Barnet Football Club one piece for his nephew. I think he is hoping that they will have another instant Barnet fan! Of course, as a protective mother, I will make sure that our boy is a bit bigger before he starts attending games and make sure he is wrapped up warm against the windy football weather. Needless to say, Tim is looking forward to some family soccer coaching in the future.Sunday, March 28, 2010
The Blue House on Woodfields
Hello, I have been meaning to post a picture of our house with its nice paint job. I think you'll notice a big improvement if you look back to previous photos of when we bought the place. It now has a very nice fresh new look and certainly stands out on our street! When we first got it painted, we actually were surprised at just how bright it came out, but as we have gotten many (surprisingly) compliments from other people on the choice of color. We have come to appreciate how it brightens up the whole street. We can also now say, "We live in the blue house on Woodfields" as it's the only one and you certainly can't miss it! As you can see the weather is getting brighter, and hopefully will continue to do so, as it has been another long dreary winter as usual. We just changed the clocks last night, so we are now really moving into the springtime. Hope you like the house, and feel free to comment or come and stay with us if you are headed to the UK.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Life in Our House
I know its been a while, but life in our house has been a bit crazy!...to say the least. We have had a lot of things happening recently in our lives. One of the main things is that I am transferring to working in Bishop's Stortford (which is about 4 miles from home) which will make my commute almost nothing and hopefully reduce my stress at work. I have been able to do this because another staff member has left that post and relocated so I am filling in her vacancy and will be replaced by someone else. I am really looking forward to this, and it goes great with Tim's plan of working closer to home as well. We have been busy with church and making friends there and enjoyed getting to know a South African couple who are absolutely awesome! This is a picture of Tim and I in the kitchen. Our little house is doing well. Tim has finished the floor in the loft and we are working towards finishing it off completely so that we can put more stuff up there. Tim has made the back garden look really good and we are looking forward to a few more plants and a back gate to get put in. But, Tim has been very busy with work and hasn't had much time to do house stuff. We are looking forward to the April break that starts in another week. I am taking some time off too and we are going to Weymouth and Cornwall which should be lovely. Overall , we are doing ok and the sweet boys are doing well too.
Friday, February 26, 2010
Christmas at Underhill Cottage
We had my parents come to stay for their very first Christmas in England in 2009. I know it has been a very long time since then, but we have been busy, busy, busy with our crazy jobs mainly and with fixing up the house and getting involved with church stuff. I will tell more about church life later in another entry. For the moment, we should just say that We had a very nice time and my parents enjoyed staying in bunk beds in our spare room! We had a traditional Noche Buena (Cuban Christmas Eve) dinner followed by a traditional English Christmas day with church in the morning (I sang in the worship band) and then dinner complete with crackers, paper hats and family games! Tim's uncle, aunt and 2 cousins came for the dinner and stayed the night at the Webbs with Phil there too. We all had fun playing Buzz which was one of Tim's Christmas gifts. We also watched some traditional English football matches during which neither team actually scored, so we had to persuade my dad that the Brits are actually aware that they should try and score but that we just watched some pretty rubbish games in a row which was unfortunate. Elise, my only sister, sadly did not come for Christmas, and she was missed, but we did send some presents home and received some nice gifts handmade by Elise herself. We did also get some more visitors, my dad's sister and her husband who live in Chepstow (near Wales) came to stay one night and we had a nice pub dinner and taught them how to play Buzz too. My parents really enjoyed seeing us in our new home, our church and meeting our friends and family, and they enjoyed having a little mini Pajot family reunion too. Overall we had a nice Christmas, and now our house really feels like a home because my family have been here.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Autumn Watch
This is a program that is on in the fall which explores all around England in terms of the natural happenings of the season with discussions about animals etc. There are a lot of viewers who write in about different things they are seeing and with questions they would like answered. These guys try to advise people about what to plant and what to harvest etc. They also have a program like this in the spring called....Spring Watch of course! Today I went for a walk with the local history society doing a "field study" which felt a bit like an autumn watch in Stansted. We walked all around the village and looked at the sites of Stansted which have history attached to them as well as natural interests. We saw the sites of old bridges, where old town shops used to be and houses etc. before the railroad came to Stansted. We also saw a badgers latrine (very interesting) which taught us about the varied diet of the badgers as well as their cleanliness evidenced by the fact that their toilet was pretty far away from their home and they appear to always go in the same spot. We walked for a while, but pretty slowly considering I was the only participant under age 50! I also have a cold so I was sniffling all the way and was really running out of tissues by the time we finished. Anyway, I ended up at my mum-in-law's for a "lemsip" which is a drinkable medicine for colds orignially with lemon flavor, but mine was black currant. We had a very civilized tea and a chat and then I walked home feeling very villagey. Now I am back at home trying to get the jokes in an old program called Dad's Army which Tim likes but I don't really understand. I am coughing a lot so I will stop writing now and make another cuppa.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Our New House!
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Springtime in England
Here is a picture of the lovely oilseed rape that grows all over the fields apparently normally in June but this year came early and has been growing all of May. I see all these fields on my drive to work every day. There is nice scenery the whole way to work which is good because there is a lot of traffic and sometimes it takes me an hour to get home. I have been getting used to a lot of changes recently, thus the recent silence on my blog. Sorry about that! I will try to continue to write more starting now. I have been adjusting to my new job which has made me utterly exhausted along with living in someone else's house which makes the entire week much more hectic in terms of schedules. The new job is different to say the least, but I am glad to be working again. I already have ideas of how to improve the whole job because I am disillusioned with the NHS system of providing speech therapy. I may end up working privately or in a special school in the long run just to be able to provide good services for kids. Other than that, the people I work with are nice, so that is good. i am doing lots of driving around though. That is nice but also means that it takes time out of my day and I can't do as much as I would like to considering the mountain of paperwork that goes along with seeing each kid. I can see the superiority of the US speech therapy services. Besides the job, Tim and I are also still working on moving out of the house as soon as we can. This is also another change we are trying to prepare for. In the meantime, I joined a new gym so that I can work out before or after work on the way to and from so that I can skip some of the traffic and get a work out too! Lots of changes are going on for us at the moment, so typical of spring on the whole. We are looking forward to moving out and visiting home soon!
Saturday, April 18, 2009
House Hunting


Since I just started my new job yesterday, Tim and I are very excited to start looking for a place of our own. It will be great to get to set up house in our own space, and now that I am working it will be easier to get going with that plan. It just so happens that David Lee Estate Agency is in Stansted and Lee (of David Lee) lives 2 doors down so we have talked to him about finding us a place. Above are some pictures of houses in Stansted and Bishop's Stortford which is typical of the houses that are around here. The one with the cream and brick house is a few houses together which is typical as well and these houses are called character cottages. That means that they have quaint features and are much older. The new houses are like the one on the left which are much more modern but thoroughly boring looking inside and out. So I think we are going for a character cottage (which will be small but hopefully we can make it work). All the houses are smaller here anyway so it's a non issue and at lease we will get to be on our own!
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Tim Got Dunked!
Just a quick note to say that Tim got baptized on Easter Sunday at our church. He has been a Christian since childhood but never took this brave step. He was a little nervous talking in front of the church but did a great job and even got dunked in twice because he didn't go all the way under the first time! It was a good day. His parents and his brother came and all of our friends were there supporting Tim. I am very proud of him!
Book Review: The Reason for God
I read this in 2 days because I borrowed it from a friend and I had enough spare time to do so. It was a good, logical and well organized discussion of some of the key arguments against God with practical explanations of evidence for the existence of God. It also covered why and how the God of Christianity is the only true God without being preachy or trite. A good read for initial research into Christian apologetics. Next, I will get into more detail with writings by C.S. Lewis and Ravi Zacharias who are both brilliant and can get into a different intellectual realm when it comes to these tough discussions. But, this one is definitely easy to digest without leaving out important details which is why it is so good. Check it out!
Book Review: Deception Point
Dan Brown again! I read his other books, The Da Vinci Code and Angels and Demons in that order and finally got around to this one. I have to say that his books are good for a page turner and a quick and easy read. That is good because they are a bit like an action adventure movie with more action than character development or other literary aspects. There are a lot exciting plot twists which you come to expect with his writing and start to predict after getting to know his style. Apparently there is one other book by him that I could read, Digital Fortress, but by now I may be able to completely predict the entire book's worth of plot twists so I am not sure it will be worth it. So I will probably wait a while before I go after that one once I finish my reading list (which is pretty long). Anyway this one is about a scientific discovery that comes at a critical time during a presidential election, and the details of the discovery could have a dramatic effect on the election as well as the world of science in general. So if you like science, you might actually see all the holes in his scientific events and descriptions and therefore may not be all that gripped by it, but if you can just enjoy it however far-fetched it may be, it is an exciting ride.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Book Review: Journey Into God's Heart
I have just finished reading a book by Jennifer Rees Larcombe who is an famous English Christian speaker and writer. She came from a Christian family heavily involved in ministry and quite famous in the UK. Her story is about a lot of things in her life. This is a book she wrote much after many of her other ones about God healing her and other spiritual topics. This one is very personal though. She admits a lot about herself and her difficulties and what is really going on under the surface of a life like hers. She has certainly been through a lot, but the great thing about the book isn't that she dealt with everything amazingly well and God just brought her through it and made everything work out (cause a lot didn't) but that she told how she learned things from simple occurrences in her life and how she processed through them going through all kinds of phases and learning to accept different things along the way. I can't really describe it well, but it is very interesting and encouraging for anyone living a Christian life.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
British Obsession with Potatoes
Have I mentioned before that British people eat a lot of potatoes. Well, they certainly do. In fact I think it counts as a vegetable in a meal with just meat and potato. They eat them with every meal: breakfast potatoes, baked potatoes for lunch, boiled potatoes, French fried potatoes with fried fish. The problem with that is that although it is a vegetable, it is a really a starch and does not contain the nutrition that many other vegetables do such as greens and other healthy essentials. So, needless to say I am a bit sick of potatoes and I also feel that someone needs to let these Brits know that they need to eat "real" vegetables and more importantly raw ones! If you go into a restaurant and order a meal it may come with a salad garnish even if it says it comes with salad, but it will be a leaf of lettuce with a slice of cucumber and tomato with no dressing. In terms of hot veggies, they are usually just boiled with little to no seasoning on them. No wonder no one wants to eat salad and vegetables! So, here's my advice to solve the potato issue: Get into fresh vegetables and learn how to make a nice salad dressing with the basics- olive oil and vinegar and herbs. Also learn how to bake, steam or saute veggies with olive oil or other healthy oil and season them with fresh or dried herbs and spices. Don't be afraid of a little flavor! It might actually make things taste better!
Book Review: P.S. I Love You
Well, with a title like that, you know it's gonna be a major chick flick, I mean book. Wait a minute...yes this book cover is a picture from the movie. The problem with this book is that it is probably much better as a movie and much cheezier as a book. See, with a chick flick you can take a little bit more cheez, but not with a book. You want some meat, some tapestry threads weaving in an out, some character development, some interesting twists. Not the case with this book, in fact, I am still wondering how the book got to be so long with so many pointless pages. Shouldn't someone have edited it and at least said, cut the crap, develop the characters?! Well, I guess the author, Cecilia Ahern did not learn what we did in High School which was summed up in a couple of famous quotes: "Brevity is the soul of wit."-William Shakespeare and another one which paraphrased sounds like: "The art of good writing is never using two words when one will suffice."-No Clue who said it other than my history teacher. So what is the deal with the book? Sentimental fluff based on the death of a young girl's hubby from a brain tumor who before he died wrote a series of notes for her to open for 10 months after his death. In each one, she is living for what he is telling her to do, little fun things and big tough things like getting a job. each one she does while life around her is moving ahead especially with her friends. It sounds interesting but really it is too fluffy and things happen to predictably and unrealistically that it just ends up being trite instead of meaningful. That's what I think! But I have heard that the movie is ok, so I might check that out at some point to compare. For now I am no to a more intellectually stimulating book....To Be Continued
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Quarter Life Crisis

Have you heard of this? I hadn't until I checked my hotmail and saw this article and thought, is that what I have been going through for the past few months? Well, one thing is for sure and that is that I am certainly not where I wanted to be at the age that I am, and I certainly do think about it constantly trying daily to do what I can to close the gap on my plan and my actual achievement. Here is a quote from the article I just read.
"There’s a strong message in society that women are expected to have a successful career, a good salary, strong friendships, a toned body, have found their life partner, be married and have children all by the time their 35. We only need to switch the TV on or open a magazine to be bombarded with images of successful career women with perfect figures and a happy, chuckling baby balanced on their hip, holding down a busy job, kissing their perfect husband, all the while smiling broadly to the camera. Even to the most dynamic amongst us, it can make life seem pretty impossible. So, how can today’s woman compete with that kind of propaganda?"- Liz Frost, Are you Heading for a Quarter Life Crisis?
You remember how this used to happen to middle aged men who suddenly felt their youth slipping away and start working out and cheating on their wives with younger women. This is a completely different thing somehow and much worse. This is when you haven't even lost your youth yet, but you feel like you haven't gotten to where you are supposed to be yet, and time is running out.
Apparently this happens more to women and I think that makes sense to me. All the women I know seem to have an internal planner that men don't seem to have. Tim doesn't worry about where he is compared to other guys, at least I don't think so. I guess the problem really is that these internal planners seem to have been written by outside imposed expectations. I think the media is involved, but basically its comparison with other people. Women love to compare, and even when they fancy themselves absolutely-one-hundred-percent-individually minded wonder how they are really measuring up to other women if they seem to be lagging behind. They are the ones who make excuses like, "Oh that's not my thing, I like to go against the grain. I just don't worry about that kind of stuff." YEAH RIGHT! They do, I know because, I fancy myself absolutely-one-hundred-percent-individually minded but I am totally not when it comes to this stuff. I am vulnerable to these comparisons of trends, conventions and TRADITION.... TRADITION! Get the musical theatre joke there? This whole comparison thing wouldn't be so bad except that there is probably too much choice out there and we are unsure if we are ever making the right decisions to get us to these goals. Unfortunately not a lot of these choices are really in our control, but we are lead to believe that they are. And when we start comparing, we certainly think if we only get ourselves under control we could get to where we wanted faster.
Well, I think what we all need is some self- esteem and faith. You don't get anywhere without self-esteem that's worth going, and you certainly get nowhere without faith. Like for example, it is not under my control how many houses are on the market in my price range, but I gotta have faith that God will give us the house He wants us to have. It's not a matter of control, it's a matter of surrender and acceptance (which I am slowly learning, turtle-slow that is). So I don't know really, but I think it's an ongoing process. The important thing as always is to be "in the moment" accept things as they are so you can enjoy them without wishing away your entire life trying to get somewhere and then realizing that you got to a lot of places but spent the whole time at each one, looking at the map and missed the scenery on the way. I don't know where all this wisdom is coming from, but I think part of it is what I need to tell myself, so I guess it all came out like a pep talk to all women who may be undergoing a Quarter Life Crisis. Let's seize the day and enjoy what we're learning huh?
"There’s a strong message in society that women are expected to have a successful career, a good salary, strong friendships, a toned body, have found their life partner, be married and have children all by the time their 35. We only need to switch the TV on or open a magazine to be bombarded with images of successful career women with perfect figures and a happy, chuckling baby balanced on their hip, holding down a busy job, kissing their perfect husband, all the while smiling broadly to the camera. Even to the most dynamic amongst us, it can make life seem pretty impossible. So, how can today’s woman compete with that kind of propaganda?"- Liz Frost, Are you Heading for a Quarter Life Crisis?
You remember how this used to happen to middle aged men who suddenly felt their youth slipping away and start working out and cheating on their wives with younger women. This is a completely different thing somehow and much worse. This is when you haven't even lost your youth yet, but you feel like you haven't gotten to where you are supposed to be yet, and time is running out.
Apparently this happens more to women and I think that makes sense to me. All the women I know seem to have an internal planner that men don't seem to have. Tim doesn't worry about where he is compared to other guys, at least I don't think so. I guess the problem really is that these internal planners seem to have been written by outside imposed expectations. I think the media is involved, but basically its comparison with other people. Women love to compare, and even when they fancy themselves absolutely-one-hundred-percent-individually minded wonder how they are really measuring up to other women if they seem to be lagging behind. They are the ones who make excuses like, "Oh that's not my thing, I like to go against the grain. I just don't worry about that kind of stuff." YEAH RIGHT! They do, I know because, I fancy myself absolutely-one-hundred-percent-individually minded but I am totally not when it comes to this stuff. I am vulnerable to these comparisons of trends, conventions and TRADITION.... TRADITION! Get the musical theatre joke there? This whole comparison thing wouldn't be so bad except that there is probably too much choice out there and we are unsure if we are ever making the right decisions to get us to these goals. Unfortunately not a lot of these choices are really in our control, but we are lead to believe that they are. And when we start comparing, we certainly think if we only get ourselves under control we could get to where we wanted faster.
Well, I think what we all need is some self- esteem and faith. You don't get anywhere without self-esteem that's worth going, and you certainly get nowhere without faith. Like for example, it is not under my control how many houses are on the market in my price range, but I gotta have faith that God will give us the house He wants us to have. It's not a matter of control, it's a matter of surrender and acceptance (which I am slowly learning, turtle-slow that is). So I don't know really, but I think it's an ongoing process. The important thing as always is to be "in the moment" accept things as they are so you can enjoy them without wishing away your entire life trying to get somewhere and then realizing that you got to a lot of places but spent the whole time at each one, looking at the map and missed the scenery on the way. I don't know where all this wisdom is coming from, but I think part of it is what I need to tell myself, so I guess it all came out like a pep talk to all women who may be undergoing a Quarter Life Crisis. Let's seize the day and enjoy what we're learning huh?
6 Months in Stansted
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